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I always used to say that if I ever had another child, I’d still happily sign up for a little girl…! And now look at me, here I am with this all‑boy family: one big strong one, one teenager (who already speaks two languages!), and a three‑week‑old, milk‑scented bundle of sweetness, each more brilliant than the other, and I honestly can’t imagine it any other way.And how do these boys feel about it all?It’s as if they’d just been waiting their whole lives for one another. ♥

Still only at half-mast, but we’re venturing out for an hour or so into the big wide world so Wolfie can get some fresh air, and I have an excuse to at least slap some face cream on.Laci’s Saturday training sessions are perfect for this, so while Rú sleeps off his school days in German on Saturday mornings (that we…???! first heard German words in September!), we air out our heads a bit.Cheers to our first little outings with this my little sack of oats!

Dear Reader, who has been following our story here in this little virtual nook for almost a decade now! Allow me to introduce the youngest member of the S&Rú diaries and the newest addition to our wolfpack: Wolfie! We’ve already been home for a week, spending our days in peace and a little bit up in the clouds, getting to know our new family model, getting used to the new sounds and needs, the changing dynamics and the extra layer of bonding that now fills our home. I’d almost forgotten what life with a newborn is like – the milky‑scented little head, the tiny hands, and that gaze that looks…

Compared to last week, when one evening really started out like there would definitely be a baby by morning, the contractions faded away just as quickly as they had come – and since then we’ve just been waiting and waiting. Not that pregnancy isn’t enjoyable, but this close to the end I really wouldn’t mind being past this whole pre‑birth quiet. Well, time is working in our favour, and in the meantime I get to enjoy the evening (or afternoon, or whenever I ask for it) massages, the delicious food the boys so kindly spoil me with, the thoughtful little gestures, and the endless rearranging of baby things that I…

To remind myself that this family expansion phase didn’t start yesterday, I’m getting a bit nostalgic about this baby blanket—designed last year, materials bought in spring, and finished in November. It’s a patchwork one I dreamed up (though Ruben helped pick the fabrics as long as his patience lasted), with every tiny detail meticulously planned before execution. And in such a tentative way that I did every measurement, cut, and stitch by hand myself, a little (or a lot) each day, over months! The best parts were made in the afternoons. After cooking lunch and Rú getting home from school so we could eat together, then post-lunch we’d snuggle on…

Oh my goodness, next weekend this little human will already be an official member of our family! It’s unbelievable how much impact he already has on us and how much he’s brought us together 🙂 Honestly, I don’t think he’ll wait until next week to be born, but while Rú is spending his ski break in Hungary, I’m trying to hold my breath and not think about labor starting, so he won’t miss meeting his brother. I’m really trying, truly… The nursery is battle-ready, though there are still some missing items that I can only set up weeks after the “move-in,” since they come from the Vác storage only when…

Even though there are still a few weeks to go until our little bundle arrives, rummaging through the baby things is already starting to feel absolutely necessary on some deep, inner level. The boys just laugh when they see me ironing tiny little socks or rearranging the wardrobe filled with palm-sized clothes, but what can I say: the only time I feel at peace is when I potter around a bit each day among all those soft little things. There are still a few gaps in the interior, but with a few clothes and various textiles I’ve at least been able to start organising the dresser, for example. If some…

Ever since we found out we were expecting, so much has happened that I barely had time to catch my breath, and suddenly here we are in the final stretch! And even though the baby’s room is still waiting on a few deliveries and some handy little necessities (like a mattress or a changing pad :D), its final look is slowly coming together. As for me and my own “final form,” I honestly hope there won’t be too many more changes, because I’m starting to feel a bit left out of my own body :))) One thing’s for sure: the countdown has begun, and the time we have left in this shared…

Armed with the library card I’d found under the Christmas tree, we set off into the city — ready to spice up our search for baby furniture with a little extra happiness: the Vienna City Library! Most of my books are still not with me, since our last moving attempt had to be reduced to what could fit in a family car (our transporter wasn’t allowed into Hungary due to high insurance risk — apparently, the country is on the no-go list for pricier rental vehicles from Austria…). So this gift hit especially hard this year! And the very best part? I finally made peace with the idea of using…

Ruben went back to Hungary with my parents when they returned, to visit family and catch up with his old friends. They hadn’t even left yet, but I already missed him. Still, I know how much people sometimes need to make their own decisions, manage their own time, and since we’ve ventured into international waters, let him experience this new dimension of independence (within safe boundaries). So, as a mother with considerable self-control, I’ve limited my parental oversight and phone calls to a manageable level. Since it turned out this way and Laci and I are left alone together, we’re using the time to set up the baby room (until…